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Dear LFTP January 7, 2013 · 59:20 · 9 min

Dear LFTP: the panhandlers who declined the groceries

  • What should I make of the panhandling couple who declined my groceries and asked for cash?

A listener offered a panhandling couple (with a baby and toddler, sign asking for food help) her family's dinner groceries — premium spaghetti sauce, ground beef, spaghetti, fruit cups, canned soup — but the man declined and suggested she go to an ATM and withdraw cash instead. The hosts debate: raw ground beef is useless on a street corner, and the 'premium sauce' framing was a bit self-righteous; graciously accepting unusable help is the kind option. One host recounts an anecdote about 'Doug,' who offered a hungry man dinner and coffee but refused cash when the man preferred money and smelled of alcohol. The Secular answer: some families are truly in need and should be guided to a shelter; some are professional panhandlers whose tax-free money does quite well. The discussion devolves into comedy about homelessness hypotheticals, rooster panhandling, and chasing raw Amish milk.

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