Dear LFTP: the 70-year-old boyfriend who winks at young women

• My 70-year-old live-in boyfriend winks at young women — is there hope for us?

Ben reads a letter from a 59-year-old woman living with (not married to) a 70-year-old man who winks and smiles at young women at the grocery store. Dan's first advice: 'you need Jesus — get yourself married.' Both agree the winking is almost certainly harmless old-guy silliness, sharing their own retirement-home anecdote, while noting he could still be more respectful.