Mike (addressed on-air) lists practical ways for young men who already love Jesus to matter: get involved helping people and build real relationships; find one or two men who are genuinely following Jesus and let them speak into your life; let your yes be your yes and your no be your no; don't overpromise -- count the cost before committing; and spend real time with Jesus and know your Bible. The hosts add that adulthood starts now, not at marriage or age thirty.