Dear LFTP: the hunting-themed wedding cake

• How can an animal-rights activist bow out of a hunting-themed wedding without hurt feelings?

A listener ('Baker in the Midwest'), an animal-rights activist, was to bake her nephew's groom's cake until the couple chose a hunting theme with a camouflage wedding dress. The hosts' advice: be honest that it violates your convictions, don't overstate your importance, and make the cake anyway since it's just colors and shapes. The 'Secular' answer is read: send a warm letter and a gift, no hurt feelings expected.