Dear LFTP: relationship fights and counseling
- How should I handle escalating fights with my girlfriend, including racially charged insults?
- Where can I find a good therapist?
A Dear LFTP letter from Robert: frequent fights with his girlfriend, financial stress, and her telling him he wants 'an obedient partner because you're Chinese,' which he calls racist. The hosts advise going to counseling together, not fighting to win, and read the 'Secular' answer: ask his physician for a counselor referral, check with health insurance, or visit the New York State Psychological Association site.
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