Dear LFTP: the 14-year-old bride and the disapproving stepfamily
- My fiance's stepfamily opposes our wedding - what do I do if they show up?
Mike reads the second letter: a young woman about to marry her prince charming says his stepfamily disapproves, asked her to leave him, and she is terrified they will crash the wedding or sabotage it. Boova riffs on the fairy-tale framing - dragons, towers, Cinderella. Mike turns suspicious: the repeated fairy-tale language, the toxic-people label, and the odd stepfamily framing smell fishy - maybe the fiance is the manipulative one and the stepdad is trying to save her. Ben says he does not want to contribute to Mike's conspiracies, then contributes anyway.
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Does God speak more now? Indwelling Spirit versus prophets
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How to tell your voice from God's: the Bible test and leniency
- How can you tell the difference between you speaking and God speaking?
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