Ambitions versus moments; do women struggle too?

• Do women struggle with the intentions-versus-actions gap the same way men do?

Ben pushes back on 'if you really wanted to, you would do it,' arguing that what we aspire to gets destroyed by moment-by-moment choices, and cites the adulterer who truly loves his spouse yet makes a terrible choice. He lands on discipline: you don't need discipline to guard your ambitions, you need it to guard your seconds, because every failure came from choosing self in some tired, hungry, or lazy moment. He then asks the other fellas point-blank whether women struggle with the same thing.