Why compliments feel weird, plus the Spartacus expansion
- Does it take thirty days to build a habit?
The compliment riff continues into why modern culture ruined casual compliments, a callback to the earlier advice about strangers fixating on a four-year-old's looks, and a host's story of feeling too awkward to approach pastors at a community church service. They joke about expanding Sparta into "Spartacus" by adding Compliments, Underwear, and Singing, and discuss habit books and falling off around eighty or ninety days.
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Church, emotions, and the self-focus of affluence
- How do you help people in an affluent, self-focused culture see that they need Jesus?
Ben revives a question from two or three shows back: are church services and worship tunes postured toward certain personality types — predominantly emotions and dealing with emotions?
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Leadership training for church leaders: get a business manager
- Do people who lead churches need leadership training?
Mike's real question: to what extent do people need leadership training to lead churches? Ben gives two distinct answers.
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The New Testament case for human shaping
- What does the New Testament actually say about spiritual authority and submission?
Ben walks the New Testament texts: Hebrews 13:17 ('obey your leaders and submit to them, for they keep watch over your souls') presumes a soul-watching laborer, not a rule-maker;…
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Confetti and lasers: what should God's people be known for?
- Do we want to be known as the confetti and lasers people?
- What should God's people be known for?
Ben redirects to the docket's denomination question: when someone hears Silas's church described as 'the confetti and lasers people,' should that sting?
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