Dear LFTP: the neighbors' shower window

• Should I tell my neighbors we can see them showering, and how do I do it without embarrassing, shaming, or angering them?

A listener asks whether to tell the neighbors that she and her husband can see everything through the neighbors' large shower window now that they have a young son. The hosts insist the neighbors must know, mock Dear Abby's overly diplomatic note advice (especially the line that it was not a concern 'before your son was born'), and joke about anonymous photo letters and peeping-Tom law.