Dear LFTP: jewelry from a former boyfriend

• What is the proper protocol for jewelry given by a former boyfriend that I no longer want to wear?

A listener asks the proper protocol for jewelry given by an ex: she no longer feels comfortable wearing it. The group debates selling it, giving it back, or resetting the stones, with special rules for engagement rings. Abby's advice: sell it or have the stones reset, or keep it as a souvenir if the attitude can change.