Dear LFTP: 'Cheated' and the boyfriend who won't commit
- What should a 31-year-old woman do when her boyfriend of 11 years keeps refusing to have a baby?
A host reads a heavy letter from a 31-year-old woman whose boyfriend Chad, 35, has strung her along for 11 years, had her get two abortions five years in, and now refuses to have a baby. The hosts are blunt: Chad never wanted a child with her, she should leave, and she needs Jesus rather than trying to redeem him. The conversation becomes a broader lament about a culture that removed Jesus from family life, closing with the woman-at-the-well model of truth plus 'go and sin no more.'
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Dear LFTP: the mother-in-law moved in
- My mother-in-law moved in seven months ago and it’s been difficult — how can we sort this out?
The last letter comes from a wife whose mother-in-law moved in seven months ago with no boundaries, rising bills, unpaid prescriptions, and open disrespect.
From No. 604 · Rearview Mirror
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Church, emotions, and the self-focus of affluence
- How do you help people in an affluent, self-focused culture see that they need Jesus?
Ben revives a question from two or three shows back: are church services and worship tunes postured toward certain personality types — predominantly emotions and dealing with emotions?
From No. 603 · Found Out
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Dear LFTP: a son's Taiwanese wife
- My son married a woman from Taiwan whom I dislike and have nothing in common with; what should I do?
Mike (speaker-2) reads a Dear LFTP letter from a parent whose son married a woman from Taiwan: she is sweet but the writer calls her 'uncultured,' dislikes her housekeeping, cooking, English, and dress, and says they are never invited over.
From No. 537 · The Bible Confuseth
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Article: why people reject Christianity, and record unhappiness
- Can you be holy and happy at the same time?
- Are people actually unhappier than past generations, or just more willing to say so?
A host reads an article arguing that beneath surface objections, two reasons top the list for rejecting Christianity: bad experiences with professing Christians who look nothing…
From No. 519 · Folk Ain’t Happy