A host on anger: calm in crisis, stewing over petty slights
A host reflects on his own anger pattern: he handles genuinely anger-worthy situations well but stews for days over petty, ambiguous slights — an offhand comment that could be read as underhanded, or a coworker who is straight-up wrong. He illustrates with the hypothetical 'nice car dentist' insult that would haunt him for three days and admits to holding a workplace grievance for a month over the black staplers.
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