Everyone makes bad decisions; consequences differ

The hosts argue that a suicide is a choice between options, like every impulsive bad decision people make -- the difference here is the permanence of the consequence, not necessarily a fully understood decision. A host warns against judging as if the person weighed the full weight of it; in that state of mind nobody is processing correctly. He illustrates with the seesaw: keep so much weight on the God side of life that the mind tips toward him when the moment of crisis comes.