Dear LFTP: should a man give a woman intimate gifts?
- Should a man ever give a woman intimate gifts like lingerie, even if engaged?
A listener raised in the South by a proper mother asks whether a man should ever give a woman intimate gifts like lingerie — she says it's unacceptable even if engaged; her friend disagrees. The hosts conclude: intimate gifts belong where the intimacy is — husband to wife only, and nobody else should be giving your wife intimate gifts. Before marriage, a man should avoid it because it puts him 'in the straights' of temptation; don't walk the line of religiosity and call sin where there is none. On online vs in-store shopping for intimate gifts, they joke that in-store is the safe move since online models wear the products. Secular's answer: the two should agree to disagree.
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