Dear LFTP: the verbally abusive 'man of your dreams'
- I love him but don't want to be in another abusive relationship — what should I do?
Mike reads a letter from a woman dating a man who calls her stupid, threatens to leave, and mirrors her abusive ex; the hosts are blunt — 'the man of your dreams does not call you stupid' — using an arsenic-in-the-cake analogy for treating bad behavior as the exception, and the Secular answer urges professional help.
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