Dear LFTP: husband Bob who can't sit still
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A stay-at-home mom writes about her husband Bob, who can't sit still, judges her productivity, and turns passive-aggressive; she dreads his days home and asks for advice beyond counseling. The hosts prescribe an honest two-way conversation resetting early-marriage expectations, note Bob seems to do everything except spend time with the kids, and read Secular's answer — which says a licensed mental health professional should talk to him and maybe medicate him — prompting strong pushback from the hosts. A KTIA break for Saturday listeners and a $25 crock-pot rib story interrupt mid-letter.
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