Dear LFTP: parents starting to hate their older daughter
- My wife and I are starting to hate our older daughter - a college dropout living at home who won't save or contribute. What do we do?
A host reads a Dear LFTP letter from parents who are starting to hate their older daughter - a college dropout who moved home, won't save or contribute, and is creating a toxic atmosphere. The hosts land on tough love: hold the move-out deadline, because shielding adult children from natural consequences only enables them - while still treating her as a daughter (dinner invitations, grocery gift cards). They also read the 'secular' answer, which urges finding the root cause behind the behavior instead of hating it.
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Dear LFTP: Champ the untrained dog and holding boundaries with your son
- How do I handle my son bringing his untrained dog Champ on our weekend grandson visits?
Mike reads the second letter: the writer hosts weekend grandson visits where her son Dennis brings Champ, an untrained destructive puppy that runs wild, barks, and digs.
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Dear LFTP: wife mocks husband's bladder problem in public
- How should I respond when my wife mocks me and my bladder problem in public?
Mike reads a letter from a man married three years whose wife calls him vulgar names in public and makes his bladder-control problem into comedy.
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Dear LFTP: the birthday invitations
- Should parents be allowed to send birthday invitations to school when only select students are invited?
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Dear LFTP: Cindy's baby name ideas
- What should I do about my friend's terrible baby name choices?
Mike reads a letter from Dave about his longtime friend Cindy, six months pregnant, who keeps proposing names like chlamydia, bidet, chalet, and cliche because they sound pretty regardless of meaning.