Dear LFTP: 11-year-old choosing between two boys
- I am 11 and like two boys — a funny, smart, good-looking friend of two years and a cute stranger. Which one should I pick?
Mike (speaker-1) reads a letter from an 11-year-old girl torn between two boys: a funny, smart, good-looking friend of two years vs. a cute stranger. Hosts joke about her 'two man harem' and whether the stranger is an 11-year-old who looks like 1980s TV star Tony Danza. Guest JC's counsel: at 11, don't focus on dating — focus on God, school, and friends, since middle-school relationships don't last. Secular's answer: enjoy both for what they offer; in time she may find a third someone combining both — the hosts call that a recipe for 'a very dangerous woman.'
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Dear LFTP: the man in his forties and the workplace breakup
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Dear LFTP: the fiance who games until 5AM
- What should the letter-writer do about her fiance's all-night gaming habit?
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Dear LFTP #1: the boyfriend who wants to move in
- My boyfriend was evicted and wants to move in — should I let him?
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Dear LFTP: the verbally abusive 'man of your dreams'
- I love him but don't want to be in another abusive relationship — what should I do?
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