Dear LFTP: the flatulent boyfriend
- Are all guys this gross and inappropriate, and how can I save my relationship with my immature boyfriend?
A Dear LFTP letter from a high school junior whose three-year boyfriend — affectionate, attentive, good looking — passes gas habitually, including after lovemaking, and thinks it is hilarious; she asks whether all guys are this gross and how to save the relationship. The hosts tell her to end the physical relationship now ('put your legs together,' said by the host addressed in the audio as Dan), calling the boyfriend an immature boy who shows her no respect; they advise breaking up, noting a parachute of better options is available. The Secular answer blames his immaturity and advises an ultimatum; the hosts mock the idea that telling him it's not funny would change anything.
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