Dear LFTP: bariatric surgery and the new job
- I had bariatric (gastric sleeve) surgery five months ago - should I tell my new employer or HR about the operation?
A listener had gastric-sleeve surgery five months ago, left her old job over changed treatment, and does not want her new employer or coworkers to know; her boyfriend says tell HR in case of medical issues. The hosts say no: medical history is your own business, HR has no use for it and no pipeline to emergency personnel, and a past surgery is not a persistent condition - tell the doctor, not the employer. The 'Secular' answer agrees: report complications to HR only if and when they occur.
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Dear LFTP 1: loud coworkers, the joining-in manager, and the Psalm 126 follow-up
- How should employees handle loud, disruptive coworkers whose manager joins in?
Mike reads the first Dear LFTP letter: a shared workspace where one department talks nonstop about non-work topics, and their manager joins in rather than correcting them — the writers are desperate for a reasonable work setting.
From No. 593 · Do You Hear What I Hear
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Dear LFTP: the rain cloud and the value of work
- How can I get out from under this rain cloud at work - do I want too much out of life?
Mike reads the second letter: a woman in her early thirties, happy in marriage and new house, but miserable in high-stress tech marketing - 'How can I get out from under this rain cloud?
From No. 577 · The Spirit, the Goldfish and the Way
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Dear LFTP: the boss who assigns personal errands to his only employee
- How do I refuse my boss's personal errands without losing her job?
The second Dear LFTP letter: a single mom of two, the only other employee in a small office, says her boss increasingly assigns personal tasks unrelated to the business — the…
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Dear LFTP: the paramedic's overtime fight
- How do I address my wife pushing me to work more overtime while spending her own vacation without me, without starting a fight?
A paramedic writes that his wife pushes him to pick up twelve-hour shifts while taking none herself, citing housework, and spends her vacation at theme parks without him.
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