Dear LFTP: the second grader who demands to be called 'Sir'
- May I tell my son it's okay not to use this bogus title?
- Would you call the kid 'sir'?
The reader reads a letter about a second grader who insists on being addressed as 'Sir' (letter calls him 'Sir Billy McAllister'), corrects classmates harshly, and whose family claims he was knighted — a claim the writer debunked. The hosts are divided: some would indulge the title to keep the peace, others refuse on entitlement grounds and say their kids need not comply. One host draws a parallel to children choosing new names; Secular advises against using the title but notes the son is free simply not to address the boy at all. The segment includes the Jermaine Jackson 'Jermajesty' naming anecdote and ends with the hosts opening the complaint line ((515) 517-0085) for listener votes on whether they'd call the kid 'sir.'
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