Dear LFTP: the boyfriend who won't commit
- Should I take a step back in the relationship with my non-committal boyfriend?
A host reads a listener letter: two years in, she invited her boyfriend to move in after COVID-era cohabitation; he took five months to answer, went back to his parents eight months ago, and will not commit to a date while blowing her off for his family. The hosts are blunt: without a marriage promise she is selling herself too cheaply — 'if you have to drag a man into a relationship with you, he does not want to be in a relationship with you.' They compare dating timelines, with Dan having married within fifty-one weeks of his first date.
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Dear LFTP: the man in his forties and the workplace breakup
- What should a stubborn man in his forties do about his awkward post-breakup workplace?
Mike reads the second Dear LFTP letter: a man in his forties whose workplace relationship ended badly now reads every walk-by as smiles and chattering and every desk approach as…
From No. 600 · Rage The Elephant
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Dear LFTP: the fiance who games until 5AM
- What should the letter-writer do about her fiance's all-night gaming habit?
Mike reads a Dear LFTP letter from a woman engaged five years to Dustin, who games from 10PM to 5AM, skips chores, and gives her no attention; talking has not helped since 'he grew up gaming.'
From No. 598 · Emphasis | Accountability, Worship and Praying with Strangers
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Dear LFTP #1: the boyfriend who wants to move in
- My boyfriend was evicted and wants to move in — should I let him?
Mike reads the first Dear LFTP letter: a listener's boyfriend was evicted and wants to move in with her; she sees red flags.
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Dear LFTP: the verbally abusive 'man of your dreams'
- I love him but don't want to be in another abusive relationship — what should I do?
Mike reads a letter from a woman dating a man who calls her stupid, threatens to leave, and mirrors her abusive ex; the hosts are blunt — 'the man of your dreams does not call you…
From No. 583 · My Girl Likes to Holy All the Time | Public Prayer & Worship Culture