Dear LFTP: the husband with no underpants
- How do I tell my husband to stop walking around the house with no underpants without hurting his male pride?
A letter signed 'covering my eyes' complains her husband walks around the house with no underpants, asking 'doesn't this look good?', and she feels violated, asking how to stop him without hurting his male pride. The hosts and guests treat it as a goofy attention bid, suggest telling him plainly that it makes her uncomfortable, and joke about Speedo Man of Pleasantville. They consider whether sudden behavior change could signal a medical issue. The Secular answer suggests affirming him, then asking him to cover up, and notes a sudden change in an older person could merit a medical check.
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Dear LFTP: the basement musician whose wife never asks him to play
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Dear LFTP: wife mocks husband's bladder problem in public
- How should I respond when my wife mocks me and my bladder problem in public?
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