The trickle-charger story: a confidence problem or an arrogance problem?

A guilt story launches the humility thread: one host (speaker-0) confesses he watched a man trickle-charging his car battery at a gas station, thought about offering a jump, and drove off -- then asks why it's easier to imagine taking a bullet for Jesus than doing the small thing right in front of you. Another host (speaker-1) contrasts this with running toward a drive-by shooting three years earlier to apply a tourniquet, versus dodging a grocery-store conversation days ago because it felt uncomfortable. The room lands on a hard word: avoiding a good deed because you fear how you'll look isn't a confidence problem, it's an arrogance problem -- and that word hits doubly hard on people with low self-image.