Habit 3: don't dismiss their interests
The hosts mock the article's cartoonish examples ("dinosaurs are somehow less complex than the solar system?"). Boova rescues the point: don't drop a cold dose of reality on a five-year-old's impractical dream — his oldest wants to write fiction, and he'd rather support it and be wrong. Dan: be honest about your own station — a "$20 an hour working for Firestone" dad doesn't know how the world works either. Mike: "Pluto's real."
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Evaluating the event: Elijah, Josiah, the sign of Jonah, the donuts test
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