Bedside manner: praying with the dying
- What should you pray when sitting with someone who is dying and you don't know what to ask God for?
Mike describes visiting a friend's dying grandmother for hospice prayer, unsure what to ask God for and whether he'd have been better served by a trained hospice pastor. Dan answers with his own hospice experience — 'you're about to open your eyes in the presence of Jesus' — and the hosts converge on presence over role: you do no harm by showing up, loving Jesus, and loving people; the training matters less than the heart. Kassin tells of being a 10-year-old tag-along counselor praying nursing-home residents through their 'final moments' until one nearly slapped him.
More on Holy Spirit
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'When God is silent': what counts as hearing from the Lord?
- What does it mean to 'hear from the Lord,' and how often should we expect it?
Mike brings a question from his Bible study, whose paragraph heading was 'when God is silent': the author wrote that he experienced God's silence for a couple of weeks and freaked out, and Ben expected a relatable years-long drought story — 'Oh, two weeks.
From No. 603 · Found Out
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Should following Jesus feel more comfortable as time goes on?
- Should following Jesus feel more comfortable as time goes on?
A host asks whether following Jesus should feel more comfortable as time goes on — noting the low-level tension many feel around am-I-doing-enough and the stigma that contentment equals laziness.
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Do accountability partners actually work?
- Do accountability partners actually do anything?
Mike raises his accountability-partners question: the standard dude-circle advice to get a buddy to hold you accountable for Bible reading, porn, church attendance, and drinking.
From No. 598 · Emphasis | Accountability, Worship and Praying with Strangers
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Mike frames the question: are more people hearing from God?
- Does it seem like more and more people are hearing from God — and is that real or a lie and a huge distraction?
Ben asks Mike for a two-sentence framing; Mike says listening to the book of Job while mowing made him furious when Bildad 'received a word from the Lord,' turning a bad human argument into an unarguable divine claim.
From No. 597 · Maybe A Word From God