Dear LFTP: is there any hope for our joyless mid-fifties marriage?
- Is there any hope for our marriage — we're past our mid-fifties, we love each other, but we live two separate lives?
Mike reads a Dear LFTP letter from a couple edging past their mid-fifties: three kids and three grandkids later, they still love each other but live two separate lives, rarely touch, and wonder if this is the rest of their lives. The hosts' advice: change course intentionally — plan things to look forward to, make new stories, and don't give up before the race is called. The Secular answer (couples counseling) is panned as restating what the couple already knows.
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Maintaining hope for people who won't choose Jesus
- How do you maintain hope for someone who keeps rejecting Jesus when God won't override their free will?
The episode's centerpiece: Mike's pre-show question about how to maintain hope for people who reject Christ when God won't override their free will.
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Declining faith and deaths of despair study
- Is declining faith fueling a rise in deaths of despair?
A host reads a Daily Mail article on a Wellesley College study linking rising 'deaths of despair' (suicide, alcohol and opioid abuse) among middle-aged white Americans to declining faith and church attendance.
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The balance question: naming harsh realities vs. keeping hope
- How do you find the balance between calling harsh realities harsh and keeping optimism and hope?
A host admits it has been a week and raises the episode's core hard question: social media is full of sympathy posts about how rough the COVID era has been, and Christians also struggle with whether to paint a shiny picture or a dreary one.
From No. 443 · Cry Me A River…Then Build A Bridge
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Revelation misconceptions, part 2: the rapture and the wrong reaction
- Is COVID-19 part of biblical prophecy — are we living in the end times?
The hosts cover the final two misconceptions. Fourth: the rapture as escape — they argue God's people are rarely spared worldly pain, citing martyrs under God's throne who are told to wait.
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