Don't make the event do it — the family-dinner analogy
Ben extends the point: don't try to make magic happen in the 90-minute service — he skewers pastors advertising sermon topics like event listings ("we're digging into Deuteronomy"), arguing nobody off the street is drawn by that; people are drawn by the Holy Spirit in you. Mike offers the family-dinner analogy: the dinner runs the same with a guest present — the guest may love the family without yet being family. Ben closes the thread with the Ethiopian eunuch: when someone reads what they don't understand, God sends a person to explain.
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