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Hard question September 21, 2026 · 49:07 · 9 min

Listening well: holding plans loosely

The hosts apply the listening question personally: Ben reflects on his house church's surprise ten-year anniversary and asks whether the community is prepared for God to send someone away, while Dan says he has told his own elders to tell him when it is time to step down because he will not know himself. Mike shares that he just texted his youth-group leaders asking prayer to 'hold our plans very loosely' — he realized he had taken settled things (like youth group on Wednesday) off the table and would bristle if God said Thursday. The identity to recover: servant of King Jesus, trusting a good Father who speaks clearly rather than keeping anyone guessing.

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