Dear LFTP: the husband, the TV remote, and 45 years of marriage
- My husband of 45 years is unbearable unless he controls the TV — do you have any suggestions?
The Dear LFTP letter: a woman married 45 years writes that her husband is unbearable unless he controls the TV — he'll wake from sleep just to change the channel back. The hosts' advice: after 45 years he's not changing, so get a second TV (move one to the bedroom); long marriages have their own snarky equilibrium. The 'Secular' answer is read: trying to reason with him won't work because he's asserting himself as top dog — get a second television. Then the hosts confess their own 'Archie Bunker' moments: one gets irritated when his wife is on her phone, another when dinner isn't in process when he gets home — 'change your way.'
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Dear LFTP: the spontaneous husband and the 7 p.m. date
- My spontaneous husband starts a project at 5 p.m., fails to cancel our 7 p.m. date, and shows up late in work clothes. Please advise.
Mike reads the second letter: a planner wife of two years whose spontaneous husband started a household project at 5 p.m., agreed to cancel their 7 p.m. date, never told the other couple, then showed up 45 minutes late in work clothes.
From No. 601 · Humble Faithful Idiot
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Dear LFTP: the basement musician whose wife never asks him to play
- Am I asking too much to expect my wife to ask me to play, or should I just let it go and stop writing songs?
Mike reads a letter from a married-31-years basement musician and songwriter whose non-musical wife has never once asked him to play — he wonders if he's asking too much or should stop writing.
From No. 597 · Maybe A Word From God
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Dear LFTP: the reluctant grandmother
- Am I wrong to prefer not to drive an hour and a half to visit my husband's grandbabies?
Mike reads a Dear LFTP letter from a 56-year-old married twelve years who doesn't want to drive an hour and a half to visit her husband's grandbabies — she's 'not into babies or children' — and can't understand why he won't stop asking.
From No. 596 · Mr. Prayer Closet
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Dear LFTP: the incarcerated husband
- My husband is serving a life sentence and I have met someone new — what should I do?
- How would you counsel the incarcerated husband who wants to divorce his wife to free her from the marriage?
Mike reads a heavier letter: the writer's husband is serving a life sentence with the possibility of parole, having turned himself in a year and a half ago for a crime from…
From No. 596 · Mr. Prayer Closet