Dear LFTP — letter 1: the dress-code question

• Would a woman rather hear about a dress-code violation from another woman, and what wording should a male trainer use?

Dear LFTP letter 1: a male trainer asks whether a woman would rather hear about revealing clothing from another woman, and for wording suggestions. The hosts split — Ben says using a female colleague is the proper use of resources; Boova says have a woman in the room but the man should be able to have the conversation himself. Mike tells the farm-animals story (Grace, the goats, the horse/donkey/goat military line). Secular's advice is read: she prefers hearing it from another woman, but enforce the rules using the handbook wording.