Dear LFTP: the breast-implant letter

• Should she tell the man she is moving in with about her twenty-year-old breast implants?

A host reads a Dear LFTP letter signed 'Old but not dead': a woman in a years-long relationship with a man five years younger, now considering moving in together (possibly marrying if it won't jeopardize retirement income), who had breast implants twenty years ago, never told any man she dated, and wonders whether she must tell him. The hosts advise: don't move in until you're married; marriage must be based on honesty, so tell him; a knee-replacement/toupée analogy debates where the disclosure line sits; one host notes the deeper issue is that after several years she still doesn't know how he'd react. They close with the 'secular answer': level with him — if he'd leave over it he isn't the man for you, and an implant adjustment would reveal it anyway.