The no-shorts rule and being faithful in the means
A host remembers his grandfather, a Southern Baptist pastor, enforcing a strict no-shorts rule even at the hip Wednesday service, and argues the rule excludes exactly the newcomer who does not know the protocol. The hosts connect such signs to the weekly sign-off: human attempts to secure God's ends by human means fail, while faithfulness in the means lets God handle the ends.
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