Story: the prayer breakfast with no breakfast
A host recounts visiting another church's advertised Wednesday-morning prayer breakfast: he arrived at 6:30 to find no food and no prayer, just read-aloud prayer paragraphs, and was skipped when it came his turn to pray. The hosts discuss feeling unwelcome as a newcomer, how churches unintentionally exclude visitors, and the gap between advertised expectations and reality.
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