Pushback: boundaries, ultimatums, and an active gospel
- Is it ever right to set an ultimatum, or is the line a boundary?
The hosts part company with the article's closing hyper-spiritualization, arguing the gospel already spoke clearly in Proverbs so the sluggard does not need a special revelation to get up and work. One host works through the difference between an ultimatum and a boundary using a comic "face in the oven" analogy: three weeks of calls reporting the same self-inflicted problem fairly earns "don't call me unless it's a morning you didn't stick your face in the oven." They land on an active gospel: "don't think about the thing, go do the thing," citing Ephesians 2:10's "created for good works," and jokingly open the (515) 517-0085 complaint line for sluggards willing to pontificate only once.
More on Accountability
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Do accountability partners actually work?
- Do accountability partners actually do anything?
Mike raises his accountability-partners question: the standard dude-circle advice to get a buddy to hold you accountable for Bible reading, porn, church attendance, and drinking.
From No. 598 · Emphasis | Accountability, Worship and Praying with Strangers
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Telling your spouse about past sin: pornography, the granola bar, and the Holy Spirit
- If you have repented of a sin your spouse never knew about, do you have to tell them?
The hosts work through whether a repented-of sin a spouse never knew about must be confessed: a pornography habit versus a stolen granola bar from fifteen years ago.
From No. 579 · Wanted: Paul and Hope | Paul’s Persecution of Christians and Radical Redemption
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Feeling spiritually meh: causes, experiences, and ways through
- Have you ever felt spiritually meh, what does it feel like, and how do you get out of it?
The main discussion: what it means to feel "spiritually meh" — not rebelling against God, but not wanting to do the prayer, Bible reading, and other connecting practices you know are good.
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What does it mean to make disciples
- What does it mean to make disciples — is it just giving information, or does it involve accountability and structure?
The hosts take up the third topic: two extremes of disciple-making. On one side, being only an information provider and leaving everything to the Spirit; on the other, running…
From No. 545 · By Invitation Only