Dear LFTP: 36, single, and the laundry-facilities suitor
- Why do the men I meet want to kiss but not have a relationship?
A 36-year-old single listener went home with a man whose main selling points were his own place with laundry facilities and a people-free job; he went straight for kissing, then said he doesn't want a relationship. Advice: hold your standards ('you deserve something better than this fella'), put Jesus first, bring in a trusted friend to vet your instincts, and meet people in neutral public settings. The Secular answer notes he may have assumed a hookup. Post-letter comedy: a host pitches himself as the ideal man — 'Hello. I'm Mike. I have a washer, and I work with very few people.'
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Dear LFTP: the man in his forties and the workplace breakup
- What should a stubborn man in his forties do about his awkward post-breakup workplace?
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Dear LFTP: the fiance who games until 5AM
- What should the letter-writer do about her fiance's all-night gaming habit?
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Dear LFTP #1: the boyfriend who wants to move in
- My boyfriend was evicted and wants to move in — should I let him?
Mike reads the first Dear LFTP letter: a listener's boyfriend was evicted and wants to move in with her; she sees red flags.
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Dear LFTP: the verbally abusive 'man of your dreams'
- I love him but don't want to be in another abusive relationship — what should I do?
Mike reads a letter from a woman dating a man who calls her stupid, threatens to leave, and mirrors her abusive ex; the hosts are blunt — 'the man of your dreams does not call you…
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