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Dear LFTP May 16, 2011 · 1:39:49 · 5 min

Dear LFTP: the bridal-portrait letter

  • Why do today's brides still take formal bridal portraits — shouldn't a wedding portrait be of the two people together?

A Dear Live From The Path letter asks why brides still take formal bridal portraits, arguing the 'WE' in wedding means equal sharing of earning, child-raising, and housework — posted by Shirley in Houston. The hosts roast the premise ('It's not we, it's wet'), debate whether a groom belongs in the bridal portrait, and conclude the letter was likely written by a feminist stirring things up rather than a groom.

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