Give permission to grieve: say the name, keep praying
The hosts advise giving grieving people ongoing permission to grieve: it's been six weeks since you lost your son -- how are things going? Don't be afraid to use the dead person's name; they want to hear it. And don't cross them off the prayer list after two weeks -- keep them on it for a year, since they need God every day whether or not they are visibly struggling. Saying 'I'm still praying for you' only counts if you actually are.
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Dear LFTP: should I attend my murdered niece's funeral?
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Dear LFTP: AA member who witnessed a life-support withdrawal
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