Dear LFTP: the creepy coworker
- A married coworker is getting too familiar with me; how do I make it stop without involving a supervisor?
A host reads a letter from a 20-year-old woman whose married coworker brings her treats, pays for lunches, and pats her lower back; she wants it to stop without involving a supervisor. The hosts advise telling him directly and firmly to back off, drawing a clear line, and joke about opening an 800-number 'dial-a-thug' ministry with a barbershop quartet that shows up singing 'Off Limits' to 'creep out the creepers'. The Secular answer is read: tell him to stop in a firm, clearly audible tone, document the incident, and go to a supervisor if it continues.
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Dear LFTP: the mother-in-law moved in
- My mother-in-law moved in seven months ago and it’s been difficult — how can we sort this out?
The last letter comes from a wife whose mother-in-law moved in seven months ago with no boundaries, rising bills, unpaid prescriptions, and open disrespect.
From No. 604 · Rearview Mirror
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Dear LFTP: Ralph calls three or four times a week
- How can I get my retired friend Ralph to call less frequently without being rude?
The letter: 'Ralph,' a longtime best friend, retired and is bored, so he calls three or four times a week 'even when there's nothing new to talk about,' rehashing the same things; subtle hints haven't worked; letting it go to voicemail just earns a callback request.
From No. 602 · Relationship Counseling
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Dear LFTP: the senior-living handshake letter, and the close
- How can a senior-living resident politely decline the dining-room manager's handshakes?
Mike reads the second Dear LFTP letter: a senior-living resident whose dining-room manager (Manny) shakes hands at residents' tables, and who dodges with wet or greasy hands — how to decline politely?
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Dear LFTP: the fiance who games until 5AM
- What should the letter-writer do about her fiance's all-night gaming habit?
Mike reads a Dear LFTP letter from a woman engaged five years to Dustin, who games from 10PM to 5AM, skips chores, and gives her no attention; talking has not helped since 'he grew up gaming.'
From No. 598 · Emphasis | Accountability, Worship and Praying with Strangers