Dear LFTP: the senior-living handshake letter, and the close
- How can a senior-living resident politely decline the dining-room manager's handshakes?
Mike reads the second Dear LFTP letter: a senior-living resident whose dining-room manager (Manny) shakes hands at residents' tables, and who dodges with wet or greasy hands — how to decline politely? The hosts' verdict: just say you prefer not to shake hands; Secular's answer says the manager wants to appear friendly and welcoming, so a polite smile shouldn't embarrass anyone. What follows is a long comedy riff on handshake norms — the poison-ivy fist bump, handshakes only on first meeting and departure, the $1 shaking booth — ending with a listener poll: text 'shake' or 'no shake' to (515) 517-0085, plus plugs for livefromthepath.org and the YouTube channel.
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Dear LFTP: the mother-in-law moved in
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Dear LFTP: Ralph calls three or four times a week
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Dear LFTP: the fiance who games until 5AM
- What should the letter-writer do about her fiance's all-night gaming habit?
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Dear LFTP: the retired people-pleaser and her boundary-blurring friends
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