Dear LFTP: girlfriend snooped my phone
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The hosts read a listener letter: the writer texts his ex civilly about their kids; after venting about his girlfriend Lily (three years) in one text, she spent the night and he woke at 2AM to find her reading his phone, then stormed out angry. She has not apologized. The hosts advise both parties failed — he should not have discussed the relationship with his ex, she went about it sneakily without giving him a chance to be honest — and she should apologize; they also question the unmarried arrangement ('legitimize your operation'). The 'Secular' answer blames the shift in blame on Lily.
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