Dear LFTP: 'Steamed in the South' car letter
- Are we wrong to feel taken advantage of after selling a car cheaply to our son's girlfriend, who then traded it in for the equity?
The hosts read a letter from parents of a 22-year-old son: they sold a car to his girlfriend (of six months) for less than half its trade-in value after her bad financial decisions, and a month later she traded it in for the equity. The hosts say the parents were taken advantage of but had 'eyes wide open' risk — once you give, you can't sack the recipient for how it's used — and note the son treats them poorly too. The 'Secular' answer calls the son and girlfriend 'birds of a feather'.
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Dear LFTP: the mother-in-law moved in
- My mother-in-law moved in seven months ago and it’s been difficult — how can we sort this out?
The last letter comes from a wife whose mother-in-law moved in seven months ago with no boundaries, rising bills, unpaid prescriptions, and open disrespect.
From No. 604 · Rearview Mirror
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Dear LFTP: the single man and the holiday cliques
- Would it be wrong for the lonely single man to start declining holiday invitations?
The first Dear LFTP letter: a single man, happy with his life and plenty of friends and family, dreads the holidays — at Thanksgiving and Christmas gatherings of 15 to 25 people,…
From No. 603 · Found Out
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Dear LFTP: the grandma, 'Libby,' and the weight comment
- Was I wrong to mention my concern about Libby's weight?
Mike reads the letter: she moved 2,000 miles to be near her daughter's family; granddaughter 'Libby' was diagnosed with a medical condition and put on weight.
From No. 602 · Relationship Counseling
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Dear LFTP: the Mimi letter ('Call Me Hoopi')
- Is it wrong for a grandmother to be upset when her grandson's other grandmother claims the same nickname?
Mike reads the Dear LFTP letter: a grandmother whose two-year-old grandson calls her Mimi — but the other grandmother claimed Mimi for herself, and the daughter-in-law is annoyed and doesn't want 'mom mom' either.