Dear LFTP: cashiers handing change in one wad
- Is there something I can do differently about cashiers handing my change back in one big wad?
A cash-paying listener is frustrated that cashiers hand back bills, coins, and receipt in one wad, forcing him to sort it at the counter while the next customer waits. The hosts are unsparing — walk twenty feet away and sort it, you are not the only consumer, or just pay with debit — while sympathizing that the transaction feels awkwardly designed. A Menards check-writing anecdote (manager must validate the check, asks for the Social Security number aloud) illustrates how payment friction irritates everyone. The Secular answer suggests talking to the store manager or shopping elsewhere, which the hosts mock as drama-gun escalation.
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Dear LFTP: the incarcerated husband
- My husband is serving a life sentence and I have met someone new — what should I do?
- How would you counsel the incarcerated husband who wants to divorce his wife to free her from the marriage?
Mike reads a heavier letter: the writer's husband is serving a life sentence with the possibility of parole, having turned himself in a year and a half ago for a crime from…
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Dear LFTP: the mumbling husband and long-marriage patience
- How can I get my mumbling husband to speak up so I can hear him?
A woman 'amicably' married 16 years is exasperated that her husband mumbles, talks from other rooms, and won't speak up despite her normal hearing test.
From No. 567 · Talk Less
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Dear LFTP: the step-grandma title
- How should a step-grandparent handle being denied the 'grandma' title?
A letter from a woman whose husband's daughter decreed, eight years after the wedding, that her children may not call their step-grandmother 'grandma.'
From No. 466 · Put Your Name On It
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Dear LFTP: dating a grieving widower
- How can she help her grieving partner feel better about himself without replacing his late girlfriend?
A woman dating a man in his late fifties, still grieving his late girlfriend Vera after a tragic accident less than a year ago, asks how she can help him feel better about himself without replacing Vera.
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