Dear LFTP: nephew Jim's trading cards turn out valuable
- Should I split the trading-card sale proceeds with my nephew?
The second Dear LFTP letter: years ago, teenage nephew Jim gave his younger cousin his trading-card collection as a kind-hearted gift; now part of it is quite valuable and the mother wants to sell it for her son's college fund, asking whether she should split the proceeds with Jim. Dan advises leaving it alone — 'a gift is the recipient's to do with as they like' — while the hosts roast the idea of selling Magic: The Gathering cards for college money ('lame, mom'). Tangents include a Walgreens kid weighing Magic packs to find the rare ones, and a host's regretted giveaway of a box of comic books. The Secular answer suggests at least offering a portion to 'old Jim.'
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Dear LFTP: the $4,200 loan that never came back
- How do I get past the sadness over the $4,200 loan my friend never repaid — do I just let it go?
The final Dear LFTP letter: a year ago a supposed friend asked to borrow money — her husband had left the country to renew his visa, her car was repossessed, she had no way to get to work.
From No. 603 · Found Out
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Dear LFTP: the $600 lawnmower and buying them a mower
- My nephew's wife took my $600, lied about it, and is avoiding me. Should I say something or let it go?
Mike reads a letter from someone who gave a nephew's wife $600 for a self-propelled lawnmower; she spent it, never bought the mower, and now avoids them.
From No. 587 · Coffee After Sunday
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Dear LFTP: the neighbor Tim and boundaries without guilt
- How can I end the friendship with my difficult neighbor Tim without sending him into a spiral?
Mike reads a letter from a self-described clean-freak friend of a hoarding, narcissistic, government-program neighbor named Tim: how to end the friendship without sending Tim into a spiral.
From No. 582 · Risky Business | Christian Risk-Taking, Community Engagement, Faith in Action
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Dear LFTP: the $99 birthday bill and "Jesus always pays"
- Was it wrong to be taken aback when I was expected to split the cost of a friend's birthday dinner?
Mike reads a letter from a man invited to a friend's birthday dinner at a popular restaurant: after the birthday boy excused himself, the waiter presented the bill and the nine…
From No. 580 · Not Sure | Old Testament Law, Holy Spirit Guidance, Christian Discernment