Dear LFTP: the Mimi letter ('Call Me Hoopi')
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Mike reads the Dear LFTP letter: a grandmother whose two-year-old grandson calls her Mimi — but the other grandmother claimed Mimi for herself, and the daughter-in-law is annoyed and doesn't want 'mom mom' either. The hosts' verdict: let the kid mangle the name and codify whatever comes out; nobody gets to dictate their own nickname, though 'Hoopi' (with 'Hoopa' for grandpa) is floated as a contender. One host adopts it: 'Unless you call me Hoopy. I'm not listening.' The read-aloud Secular answer: more than one Mimi could be confusing; the relationship matters more than dibs on a name.
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