Be yourself in grief ministry; the 10-second rule
The hosts say you shouldn't fake a personality you don't have to help the grieving -- some have a gift of mercy, others are awkward, and people want you genuine, not phony. A host describes a book randomly sent to his wife with their homeschool curriculum, 'The 10 Second Rule': in the next 10 seconds, will you do what God wants you to do? -- illustrated by driving past a stranded man on the interstate and rationalizing not stopping. One host jokes he won't read it because it would convict him, preferring 'the 60 second time manager.'
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