Dear LFTP: eighth-grader with no friends
- How can a parent help an eighth-grader who has no friends at school?
A Dear LFTP letter: the writer's daughter is in eighth grade at a small private school with no friends, and the parents' promise that high school will be easier isn't landing. The hosts' advice: there is no magic button for making a child's friends; the parent's job is to make sure she isn't the one causing the trouble, keep showing up, pray for a friend, and don't force it — real connection comes naturally for most kids. The Secular answer agrees, noting cliques solidify by seventh grade, and the hosts mock the persona's age ('I was included when I moved to a new school in seventh grade back in 1910') and its $8 'how to be popular' booklet. The episode closes mid-sentence as a host turns to ask Mike a question.
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Dear LFTP: 'Maid of Honor Fails to Follow Shower Instructions'
- Who is in the wrong — the bride or the maid of honor who won't follow the shower instructions?
The second Dear LFTP letter, titled 'Maid of Honor Fails to Follow Shower Instructions' (not a bathing problem — a bridal shower problem): the bride was clear she didn't want a…
From No. 603 · Found Out
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Dear LFTP: the $4,200 loan that never came back
- How do I get past the sadness over the $4,200 loan my friend never repaid — do I just let it go?
The final Dear LFTP letter: a year ago a supposed friend asked to borrow money — her husband had left the country to renew his visa, her car was repossessed, she had no way to get to work.
From No. 603 · Found Out
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Dear LFTP: Ralph calls three or four times a week
- How can I get my retired friend Ralph to call less frequently without being rude?
The letter: 'Ralph,' a longtime best friend, retired and is bored, so he calls three or four times a week 'even when there's nothing new to talk about,' rehashing the same things; subtle hints haven't worked; letting it go to voicemail just earns a callback request.
From No. 602 · Relationship Counseling
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Dear LFTP: the birthday-gift pressure
- My friends insist on giving me birthday presents I can't reciprocate. Shouldn't my wishes have been respected since it's my birthday?
Mike reads the first Dear LFTP letter: a part-time worker paying her own health insurance asked friends to skip presents at a triple birthday dinner; they refused, saying she needn't reciprocate.
From No. 601 · Humble Faithful Idiot