- Is there a 'Yoav' in your life — something harmful you keep because it still serves you?
Ben's framing question — Joab served David even while harming him; what do you keep because it still serves you? — draws confessions from the whole room. Mike lists five rooted in one unbelief: that God won't replace them with something better (nicotine habit, addiction to convenience, lack of intentionality, the 'test me on this' gauntlet). Boova confesses food as an idol he has said flat-out no to God about, naming his half-measure obedience. Dan admits never resting, Kassin admits comfortable satiation. The hosts land on trust: God invites freedom; the question is what you've carved out and won't ask His wisdom about.
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Dear LFTP: dessert-free days, discipline, and soul over dirt
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Dear LFTP: AA member who witnessed a life-support withdrawal
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